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Is Dad Just a Helper?

2/3/2026, 4:48:15 AM

It turns out that it’s not just physical absence that matters. Being "physically present but emotionally absent" has a significant impact, too. Research suggests this state is linked to emotional instability, low self-esteem, and issues with impulsivity in children. 💡 "How will your child remember their father?" A father isn't just a "provider" or a means to an end; he is a deeply influential presence. He is a true caregiver—someone who runs, laughs, makes mistakes, and learns right alongside his child, not just the person who brings home a paycheck. Does your partner seem awkward with parenting right now? Do you find yourself wondering, "Why is he so hesitant?" or "Why is he walking on eggshells?" It’s likely not indifference, but unfamiliarity. Remember, he is navigating fatherhood for the first time, just as you are navigating motherhood. The book The Role of the Father in Child Development offers both academic insight and warm guidance on why fathers feel this way and how they can engage more deeply. Perhaps we can reach out a hand first, helping him take that step closer to his child? 📚 Reference Note There is no Korean translation available yet. You can find the original English edition at online bookstores (Yes24, Aladin, etc.) or in libraries. Key citations from this book are frequently used in government childcare policies and co-parenting research.